By Donna Gates, as seen on:
While the will to survive is a blessing, sometimes we can get trapped into a survival pattern. Commonly called survival mode, these patterns lock us into painful mental and emotional states, such as rage, worry, or sorrow.
When we are locked in survival patterns, mental programs tell us that who we are or what we love isn’t safe. We sometimes run these programs every waking hour of the day.
Dramatic life changes can move us into survival mode. This is when we do what we can just to get through the day. These changes can include:
- A change of jobs
- The loss of a friendship or relationship
- Moving to a new town
- The passing of a loved one
- Financial struggle
- Recovery from addiction
When we live in survival mode, we are run by fight-or-flight hormones that tell us to either stand our ground and get angry or to flee. These hormones create a shift in your body. They shut down digestive function. They weaken the immune system. They make the body more vulnerable to infection. Over time, these stress hormones also drain the adrenals, which are like little batteries that sit on top of the kidneys and modulate stress.
Fight-or-flight hormones do not only drain your physical body. They can also distort or severely deplete your mental and spiritual bodies. Fight or flight hormones change your outer reality as much as they change your inner landscape.
The trick to managing stress hormones and survival patterning is not to run away from them. What we run away from often contains a lesson; and these lessons have a way of finding us over and over again—until we learn.
When you find yourself at ground zero, the trick is to accept where you are and to build. When you do this, real change is possible.
One question I like to ask myself, “What do I need to feel safe? What are my boundaries?” You can go through every area of your life, including work, relationships, and even your fitness routine to define these limits for yourself.
As you build up from ground zero and shake off survival patterning, be sure to take extra care of your adrenals, the small glands that pump out stress hormones.
You can rebuild your adrenal energy by choosing to eat nutrient-dense fermented foods, like cultured vegetables and fermented spirulina, and by staying away from foods that provoke inflammation. Getting a full night’s rest and eating regularly throughout the day will also help to give your body the strength that it needs to move out of survival mode.
What do you need to feel safe? What are your boundaries? Please share in the comments below, your examples may help others.
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